This week in the "dungeon"

This past week has been a pretty amazing one, truth be told. I work retail and while things are getting busy, the shifts I have been working have mainly been during the day. The kidlets have had activities most evenings this week and have often both been out of the house at the same time. This has meant that B and I have had a chance to "play". We don't often get the chance to do that and certainly not two or three nights in a given week so when we had the opportunity we definitely took it.

One evening wasn't the most pleasant. Unfortunately, there were a few times that I had broken some of the rules we have set in place in our relationship and B decided that I needed to be reminded of them. I had forgotten to make his lunch for the next day (something which I am expected to do daily). I had also forgotten and hopped into bed without being invited. Finally, I had eaten a treat without asking permission first. With three strikes against me, B felt it was necessary that I be disciplined.

 I do enjoy pain to a certain extent but there is a huge difference between pain for pleasure and disciplinary pain. What I experienced was definitely in the second category.

B started out with some spanking which is lovely and tends to warm things up nicely. Then, he switched to the flogger. We have one that is really wonderful. It has long purple suede falls (the part that comes into contact with your body) and is super heavy. To me, it feels like a massage. Then, B started alternating between hitting me with a cane and the flogger. That was less pleasant. After a short while, he just used the cane.

He had decided that he would deliver a certain number of blows to my ass and if I moved, he would have to start again. To be honest, I'm not totally sure how many lashes I took. I do know I tend to wiggle and move a lot. That's something that, for the sake of my ass, I need to work on. B doesn't usually restrain me when he disciplines me so I need to be better at sitting still.

Afterwards, there is a wonderful sense of peace and calm that I feel. I am always grateful that B wants to correct my behaviour and I feel very close to him once the discipline is complete. Its a really wonderful reminder of my place in this relationship and I definitely will make sure to keep the rules in mind moving forward.