We're a married couple who have chosen to engage in a relationship where he makes the decisions. While I have input into those decisions and he values my opinion, if he makes a different choice, I live with it and make it work. He has final authority in the home and whether or not he chooses to exercise that authority is up to him. Its up to me to make sure he has all of the information he needs to make a sound decision that benefits the entire family.
We also engage in domestic discipline (DD) as well as rough sex. There probably won't be much about that aspect of things in this blog because its more about how we relate to each other and handle daily life than a description of kinky activities. That's not to say there WON'T be some of that, but the main goal is to talk about how we relate to one another.
There are kids in the home. They came as part of my package deal. Some of this blog is going to talk about the challenges of raising two kids who are old enough to notice what's going on and ask questions but for the most part, they won't be appearing here much.
He is in the military and has been for many, many years. It has given him an appreciation for telling people what to do and how to do it, and an appreciation for making sure that things are a particular way. There are periods of time where work takes him away for anywhere from a few days to a few months. He has a child as well, but that child is older and does not live with us.
I'm a freelance writer, and most of this blog will likely be written by me with comments and the occasional entry written by him. I've opted to ensure that my job is as portable as possible because the military tends to move families around on a regular basis so a career in any one particular location is difficult to impossible.
We "met" on FetLife, chatted for a while, and decided to meet one day. There has been a lot of talking about how much authority he wants, how we want to handle different things, and to be honest, our life together is still evolving as new situations come up.
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